What can I say, my dearest, Anna?
In a few days, you will be walking down Xavier University’s main lane in your cap and gown, proud of your accomplishment and happy in the knowledge that Dad and I will be rooting for you as you bask in your one-minute of fame on stage while you receive your diploma from the University President.
I remember the first time we brought you to your first day in Kindergarten at Rosevale School. It was to become a tradition for us to always bring you to school on the first day of classes of every school year and semester. We did it when you went to prep school, and then again every school year while you were in grade school, high school and even when you went on to college.
You have gone through three commencement exercises and each time was a happy occasion. I’m sure this one will not be any different. If anything, it’s going to be an even more awesome event in our lives! After all, it’s never going to be repeated!
Are you ready for the world, baby? I must admit that I am anxious if you are or if the world will be kind to you because it usually isn’t. It will not always be rosy. But then as your Lolo (my Daddy) would always tell us while we were growing up – Life is what you make it! Happiness or the lack of it is a matter of choice. You will be what you want to be.
Dream big, langga….. imagine and believe! You become a better person when you see more places and meet more people. The world becomes kinder in a way, after you understand the way other people think and feel.
Be kind to yourself. You’re just 19! You are bound to commit mistakes. Learn from them. Learn from others as well.
Be positive! You are your father’s daughter in this respect and I thank God for that! The sun always comes out after the rain! Life’s downpours may last for some time but it will stop. Always expect the sun.
Stay safe. Be extra careful and cautious. There are a lot of people out there who will not hesitate to hurt others. Take care always.
Don’t stop learning. Life is an enormous, infinite repository of information. Develop yourself as a person and as a professional.
Let the Magis in you come out! You are more than what you think you are. You will always have a bit (?) of Dad and me in you woven so intricately with who you are. Offer your best!
Love life! Life offers countless opportunities. But don’t forget what I always tell you – whatever you do (good or bad) does not just affect you; it affects everyone around you as well.
Love, respect, be kind and generous. At the end of the day, it’s not what you know that matters. It’s how you have made somebody else’s life better by loving with an encouraging word, a kind gesture, a respectful stance and a generous heart.
Pray. It’s your only lifeline. Value how you were brought up. Consider our rites and ceremonies, beliefs and practices as sacred.
Never waver in your faith in God. He is your “everything,” every time, all the time!
Anna, you are our link to a time, which we won't be able to see. Dad and I may not be able to live all our dreams but that’s okay because we know you will do better.
Congratulations, my darling Anna Girl!
I love you! Always take care and God bless you!
